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Question of The Day: What makes a Girl think a Guy is Gay?

Hey Wing Girls,

I'm 17 and everyone, no joke, in my school thinks im gay. I'm not and it drives me crazy! I've watched all your videos and the advice is great, but I'm too scared to test any of it out because I'm always scared that the girl is going to laugh and say, "wait you're serious? I always thought you were gay." I've asked my friends for help but they say, "we don't think you are, and that's all the matters." Except it does matter! I absolutely refuse to leave high school without my first kiss, cause lets face it, that would just be pathetic. So my question is: What makes girls label guys as gay?

Thanks for being awesome and making me laugh every time I watch a video!

WG:

Ok brosef WE HEAR YA. Obviously you are not gay because why bother writing us just to lie to yourself, right? But if you were, or if any of our fans are, we love all our fans the same but we have a weak spot for the gays so hi we love you! Ok so yes you are a straight guy that most people perceive as gay. Many things can lead girls to think this, and since you didn't give us any info on that, its hard to say what it is. But the general consensus from your classmates is you aren't into girls in a sexual way. And since you are, thats a shitty place to be. It sucks to have someone think that you feel a way you simply don't. Just know that after high school a lot of girls will be all over you. The truth is girls would love a guy with the dispostion of a gay guy but who is sexually attracted to them, so stop thinking of it as a bad thing. It could be kinda great. It could be your thing. But in the meantime, why don't you work on getting that kiss? One thing you could try is going to a place where people don't know you. Like an all ages dance club, skating rink, bowling alley, some group activity where people your age hang out. Then you get a fresh start and can make it obvious from the begining that you are into the girl. Also you could try asking out an underclassmen like a freshman girl, who won't know you as well and won't be so critical of you. Whatever you do, don't harp on gay people when you say that you aren't one. That would be a double negative, also it makes people think you have something to hide when you put down other people. In general, remember you are who you are and even though some people think you are something you aren't, you know the truth and ultimately thats all that matters. You will be fine, you sound like a catch to us!!! College is your playground, promise. xoxo WG

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Question of the Day: Your League

Him:  so what i want advice on is this: basically ive only been out with two girls my whole life and im 19 so now its like when am i going to get a girlfriend if ever.. anyway, so i'm not shy but i've only asked a few girls out like within this year and i mean its all friendship stuff really, most of the girls im attracted to are one with boyfriends and then i kind of obsess about them and like not obsess but keep talking to them and nothing has happend. so there is a girl i like but she has a boyfrined for two weeks shes never had a bf before and i just find her really attractive but i try to get over it by asking people out like just 2 days ago i asked out a stranger on the bus! haha and she said yes so i got her number and stuff but shes not like super attractive and these other girls are, i usually ask out girls to boost my confidence even though its high already. so should i just go out with this girl, should i wait? should i try and find someone i find real attractive, its just like i wish everyone had the same faces and stuff so i didnt feel like this its just my brain confusing me and its so annoying... so if you can please reply i watched your videos and so i thought you could help, i hope so.

WG: don't go for girls that have boyfriends, go for girls who are available and who agree to go out with you. You should go out with the girl on the bus. You don't have to marry her, just go out on a few dates with her. You might find her more attractive the more you get to know her. Give her a chance.
xo
WG

(Follow up email from Him:)

hey thanks for the advice =] did what you said and we went out today. i know i dont have to marry her ;) i guess confidence is very attractive because today i was blown away. got to thank you for that. bus girls rock! =]

Question of the Day: Party On

Him: I've done all you said and have had nothing but the greatest success. its amazing how a gentle push in the right direction can really help a guy out. i owe it all to you guys thanks a mil!! lol but now i have another problem on my hands and i thought that maybe you guys could be of assistance once again. my girlfriend wants to take me to this huge party on friday filled with tons of people that i dont even know. i dont party much and when im there i want to give my boo plenty of space to breathe and just have a good time with her friends. i mean i dont wanna cling to her all night, that can be hella annoying if ya know what i mean. so what should i do about this? basically my question boils down to? how do i act at a party??? im sure you girls have plenty of experience on a simple matter such as this?? get back to me as soon as you can. b4 friday if at all possible cause after that i guess it really wouldnt matter then would it lol??? anyways. thanks a mil. xD

WG: Hey Dude,

First of all, we're glad we could help you so far. Yay for us as we pat ourselves on the back. Second of all, if going to a party is the biggest thing you're worried about, then you are doing all right. Still, you've got a valid concern. Going to a party with a girlfriend, especially if you haven't been dating long is a big deal because she is going to want to see how you act in public. Do you find the nearest wall and slump against it all night? Do you get really drunk and do keg stands and then ask her to drive you home? These are all ways girls gather information about the guy they're dating, and vice versa. You're right that you need to give her space and let her catch up with her friends. Good for you, you're half way there. But you also shouldn't leave her alone all night either and make her wonder where you are the whole time. Here's a good thing to do. When you first get there, hang out with her for a little bit. Hopefully she'll introduce you to a couple of people. You can smile, say hi, make light conversation, whatever. Then, if it gets to the point where she's deep in conversation with a friend of hers, leave them alone. Say you're going to go get her a drink or something to eat, and then take your time getting back to her. See if you can mingle on your own and make any friends along the way... or just check out the scenery of the party. Then once 10-15 minutes have gone by, get back to your girl. Repeat once or twice more during the night, depending on how long you guys stay at the party.

The biggest thing though is to enjoy yourself. If she sees that you're having a good time, then she won't have to worry about you and then she'll have fun too.

Good luck!

xoxo

WG

Question of the Day: Freeballin'

Him: Well, me and my best friend are both freerunners, which means we do flips on concrete and backflips off of walls, and all that. We joined our schools tumbling team, and most of the girls there think it's pretty cool, but there's one girl I like who isn't on it and she's friends with most of the girls on the team. Do you both think that she'll just think I'm weird for joining, or think I'm awesome because I don't care if people make fun of me for it?

WG: Hey man, that is so awesome. We have been telling you guys for ages to get a hobby and you finally listened! Sounds like a pretty kick ass hobby, too. You will impress a ton of girls with it. We're pretty sure the girl you like will  think you are the shiznit for joining the team. If she's not, then she's seriously lame and you're not allowed to like her anymore. Why would you want to be with someone that judgmental who's not gonna support you in everything you do? You deserve nothing less. But we're sure she will think your wall flipping skills are kick ass so don't worry. Just do what you like to do and the rest will fall into place! And send us a video of your skills. We will post them on our page! 

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Question of the Day

Him: hey
ive emailed you in the past about relationships and unfortunately im still single. im freshly 25 now and my last "relationship was 3 years ago" and that lasted less than 4 days. i've never been in a real relationship which is what i really want but it hurts every day that im single. i am a shy guy and it's hard for me to talk to girls i like. i probably blush and say stupid stuff. i would ask a girl out but im very sensetive and have been hurt many times in the past. where can i go to find the right girl? there was this one girl at my school who couldn't stop looking at me in class, but that's over and i think she liked me but i never talked to her because i didn't know her. im afraid to get into another relationship ever because im tired of being hurt and im tired of finding the wrong girls. please help! i dont want to be the 40 year old virgin!

WG: hey guy, sounds like you are scared of a lot of things, but of what exactly? Of getting hurt? Everyone gets hurt in relationships. It comes with the territory. Of getting rejected? The more you ask girls out, the easier it will be to deal with rejection. Just get used to it. Of girls not liking you? It's not the end of the world. There will be plenty of girls out there that you won't like either.  Have you tried online dating? match.com is better than plentyoffish or the free sites because match is for more serious people that are actually looking for a relationship, like you. And what about asking your friends to set you up? Tell your friends that you want to go on a date and then put it in your hands. And finally, ask yourself why you haven't been in a long relationship yet. If it's because of fear, then you might want to get help from a counselor or therapist to explore some of those issues you've got lying around. Therapy is fun. You get to pay someone to sit there and listen to your every word. Finally, hang in there, buddy. Dating isn't easy, but when you find someone that loves you and who loves you back, it makes it all worth it.